#3: 9 Days More...

"Selamat tinggal kepada semua, Berpisah kita selamanya, Kita tak sama nasib di sana, Baikkah atau sebaliknya" (Rabbani)


I am thinking... very hard.

• What's the feeling if I know that only 9 days left for me to live in this world?


• Am I ready for this?


• How I plan to use the given time?


• What's the best way to leave the person that I love in a way that make them happy?


• Where the place that I would like to go before I die in this short duration time?


• Will others forgive me on what I did to them?


• What 'hutang' that I still have?

Owhhh... masih byk soalan ni. Tp saya nak pergi menenangkan diri sebentar.

Semoga Allah sentiasa menyayangi kita dangan rahmat dan petunjuk yang terbaik. Seperti yang diketahui yang Dia tidak akan membebani seseorang, melebihi kesanggupannya. I love you, Allah. Semoga apa yang aku perkatakan ini, seiring dengan perbuatanku.

Lots of Lurve: nuha hafizah.

#2: No One Is Perfect

"Dan bila engkau telah mengerti, Berapa besar artinya cinta, Hingga setiap nafas yang mengalir di tubuhmu, Mengandung cinta dari Yang Kuasa" (Cinta Sejati - Element)


Untuk yang dah bernikah, bakal bernikah dan mempunyai sebarang talian dengan orang yang bernikah e.g. sahabat, adik-beradik, ibu bapa etc :) This is a sharing through email by a friend of mine. Almost everyday, she send email as a tazkirah to her friends. Only Allah could repay her good deeds.

Danke.

Lots of Lurve,
nuha hafizah


Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Let no Mu’min hate a Mu’minah: if he hate her for one trait in her character, let him be pleased with another that is in her.” [Sahih Muslim]

Love does not mean that we should always agree with or feel good about our partners. A man may like a quality not in his wife, but he should be conscious of the fact that she might have other qualities that are even better.

Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) says that spouses are like clothes for each other. They hide the defects in the body, and beautify the body. Each person wears clothes that are just the right size for their body. So also Allah gave you the spouse just right for you, somebody who complements your strengths and compensates for your weaknesses. Therefore, never compare your partner with others. Somebody else’s clothes may look great on them but terrible on your partner.

The same applies to the wife regarding her husband. Perfection in humans is only possible in Jannah; it does not exist in humans on earth. So don’t look for it here.

As clothes and bodies go together but are not the same, so also your and her strengths will be different. Do not expect your spouse to be good at the same things as you. Do not expect to mold the other to become just like you, and do not expect the other to be exactly what you expect her/him to be.

What happens if something falls on your best clothes? You carefully wash the stains off them, right? You don’t throw the clothes or exhibit the stains, but make the clothes all beautiful again.

Bear this in mind: Sometimes the clothes are perfect. Everybody says they look great. But you don’t like them. Then it is your own sight that needs to be fixed. When partners are able to accept and live with their differences, love and respect will grow and that is how this relationship stays.

#1: Welcome!

"Dimulakan dengan Bismillah, disudahi dengan Alhamdulillah, Begitulah sehari dalam hidup kita, Mudah-mudahan dirahmati Allah" (Bismillah - Raihan)


Assalamu'alaikum & Salam Sejahtera :)

Please welcome me in this 'blogging' world. Hopefully, kita sama-sama dapat manfaat. Mana-mana yang tersalah, terkasar, tak sedap dibaca mahupun dipandang, harap dapat ditegur... secara berhemah, ya ;) Any constructive feedback is highly appreciated.

Baiklah, ini sahaja untuk first entry. Moga rahmat & kasih sayang Allah sentiasa bersama kita.

Danke.


Lots of Lurve,
nuha hafizah